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Could it get messy? Anyone ever been in this situation? I kept it short, as to waste less if your time. Stop reading your just wasting more of your damn time, if you're still reading I love you Edited Sat Mar 29 2008, 09:16AM |
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Rudeboy Supreme!
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Joined: Fri Mar 23 2007, 06:37AMPosts: 1252 |
I love you too Wu. I was about to say I have no advice, but now that I think about it. It would depend on where you work, how often you too would work together, be around each other, and whether being together and all of the previous questions together would disrupt your working or others. You don't want to get in trouble right. But its all a judgment call for you to decide, I would say just think about those questions. "If I do go out with this girl, will it make working hard or weird?" |
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I can only say one thing.. Don't shit where you eat. | ||
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doctorphate
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I'm engaged to someone i met at work. Works fine you just cant be in the same department. Our departments generally dont communicate. | ||
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Sir
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Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PMPosts: 2628 |
memnoch wrote ... I can only say one thing.. Don't shit where you eat. Abso fucking lutely. Good call Mem. I like to phrase it as "Don't fish in the company pond." However, I work at a real job. Like a career job. But I've had plenty of bullshit part time jobs as a bartender and waiter. DEFINITELY pick up chicks at work if you don't give a fuck about your job or you can get any other job doing the same thing at anytime. Now, here's my problem, always has been. I love this chick I work with now at my job job. Well she doesn't work with me, we work for the same boss 50 feet away from each other, different company though. My job is literally to invent, implement, fix equipment and show the equipment off to new prospects and clients. Her job is to use it. So while we don't work together, it's close enough. Here's the issue, I fuckin love her. Why? Because I'm an idiot and I don't know what love is. But that doesn't help me not get funny feelings in my tummy whenever I see her. (i'm being silly here but seriously) But you know... we've made out, we've gone on dates, we've slept together but no sex. She's doesn't like relationships too much because she feels she's usually the weak link and ends up hurting the person who falls for her. Me... i have self-destructive tendencies so I usually pursue what would hurt me anyway. Ugh but I don't want date, bang and break up and have it be weird. We have a pretty cozy friendship right now. But I want sex. I don't care, friends with benefits is a much more elusive situation than what some would lead you to believe. Well maybe not, actually it's easy to find friends with benefits. what's hard is turning the friendship you WANT into afriend's with B's relationship. Beggars can't be choosers right? I don't think I helped answer your question at all did I... |
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Anal Assassin
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Joined: Mon Oct 09 2006, 04:58AMPosts: 3848 |
Wu, eat that shit up man. Honestly, if i wasnt goin out with my current g/f, i woulda banged two of the girls that used to work at my old job. One of them still wants to bang me... we even talked about fuckin eachother if i was seein someone. And the second girl is so god damn hot. I want her pussy so bad, but i cant have it... so i hooked up my friend with her. I figured... hey, at least someone is bangin her...  So Wu, dont listen to anybody. Grab as much pussy as you can get. Co-workers are the best. You get to bang them in their work attire 
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Joined: Tue Mar 04 2008, 07:00AMPosts: 181 |
Dude... this thread is FULL OF WIN! >=) | ||
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Registered Member #49
Joined: Tue Dec 06 2005, 01:37AM Posts: 1561 |
NoSkill wrote ... Abso fucking lutely. Good call Mem. I like to phrase it as "Don't fish in the company pond." However, I work at a real job. Like a career job. But I've had plenty of bullshit part time jobs as a bartender and waiter. DEFINITELY pick up chicks at work if you don't give a fuck about your job or you can get any other job doing the same thing at anytime. Now, here's my problem, always has been. I love this chick I work with now at my job job. Well she doesn't work with me, we work for the same boss 50 feet away from each other, different company though. My job is literally to invent, implement, fix equipment and show the equipment off to new prospects and clients. Her job is to use it. So while we don't work together, it's close enough. Here's the issue, I fuckin love her. Why? Because I'm an idiot and I don't know what love is. But that doesn't help me not get funny feelings in my tummy whenever I see her. (i'm being silly here but seriously) But you know... we've made out, we've gone on dates, we've slept together but no sex. She's doesn't like relationships too much because she feels she's usually the weak link and ends up hurting the person who falls for her. Me... i have self-destructive tendencies so I usually pursue what would hurt me anyway. Ugh but I don't want date, bang and break up and have it be weird. We have a pretty cozy friendship right now. But I want sex. I don't care, friends with benefits is a much more elusive situation than what some would lead you to believe. Well maybe not, actually it's easy to find friends with benefits. what's hard is turning the friendship you WANT into afriend's with B's relationship. Beggars can't be choosers right? I don't think I helped answer your question at all did I...  |
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Registered Member #49
Joined: Tue Dec 06 2005, 01:37AM Posts: 1561 |
I love my job but I like this chick too. You guys definitely all helped. Well except for FoxBox lol. I have a lot to think about |
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Sir
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Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PM Posts: 2628 |
That panda bear is awesome lol but what does it mean? | ||
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