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b4ndito
Registered Member #958
Joined: Fri Jan 04 2008, 06:59AMPosts: 3385 |
I know we see these threads pretty regularly as we all have no social skills outside of the internets, but bear with me. My friend invited me to a party at his girlfriend's on Saturday, and I went with all intention of getting shit faced and laughing at her frail high school friends. Everything went just as I planned for a while, when I became the depressed "I haven't had a real girlfriend in over a year" drunk. This one girl there was beautiful. Like...take my breath away gorgeous. Saying she's "hot" would be an insult. This girl is 100% what I need in my life, and I realized it the second I saw her. So, naturally, I figured I had absolutely no chance. My buddy's girl introduced us and we kinda left it at that for a while. Later that night, as we were all settling down and getting ready to go to sleep, me and this girl are joking around and having a great time with some of the other people. She wouldn't stop looking at me and smiling and laughing. So this feeling of elation swept through me, and somehow I didn't completely fuck up all my chances like I normally do. I was on my fucking GAME. And yet, I had NO intention of hooking up with her. I just wanted to get to know her. So when we're all exhausted, she invites me to "Sleep next to her" on a cozy little spot on the floor with a tiny blanket shared between us and 3 of our friends (all attractive girls, thank you). She cuddles up against me and lays her head on my shoulder and we hold hands until we fall asleep. In complete silence. For me, that is about the most romantic thing that could have happened. Like I said, I have no reservations that I didn't hook up with her. The next morning, we all hurry out of there and I didn't get a chance to get her number. So here's where your advice comes in. I want to ask this girl to dinner, a movie, whatever. I just want to see her again. Like this girl is relationship material (which I don't see very often where I'm from), and I'm very interested. Should I risk asking one of her best friends (who has a bratty gossip whore mouth) for the girls phone number, or should I try to catch up with her on Facebook, which is possibly the gayest website ever? On top of that, how do I address a girl I met in a drunken haze? "Hey, it's Mike. I'm that guy you invited to sleep with you at that random party." For some reason, that just doesn't have the right ring to it. Call her or facebook her, or wait to see her at another party? Suggestions? |
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| Ninca |
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Registered Member #561
Joined: Sun Feb 04 2007, 07:45AMPosts: 1109 |
facebook her, she'll probably remember you unless she was rediculously drunk. | ||
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| O_Mega |
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Inconsistant Ownage Device
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Joined: Sat Dec 10 2005, 06:12PMPosts: 1058 |
Ask Noskill. He can google it for you. | ||
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| ABadNewsBear |
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Registered Member #611
Joined: Wed Mar 21 2007, 08:35PMPosts: 219 |
Get the number, without using facebook/teh internets if you can. Oh, and is she a high schooler? 'Cause you're totally not... Edited Tue Apr 22 2008, 02:03PM | ||
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| NoSkill |
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PMPosts: 2628 |
You're fucked. You blew it by not getting her number then and there. Now she probably thinks you weren't interested or worse, a fuckin pussy... If you can find her without shouting from the roof tops, going door to door or doing other obnoxiously pathetic things, then I'd approach it like this: "Hey, this is kind of embarassing, but you remember the other night? At that party? (don't say what happened) Yah I just wanted to say thanks for being there, it made my night." *Response* If she doesn't remember, show any interest, or does something else bitchy then say "Nevermind, you were better looking when I was drunk anyway." If she does remember, or nods and gets shy, or smiles, or licks your face then you can proceed with. "So would I be way out of line if I asked you to go out some time?" Good luck. Edited Tue Apr 22 2008, 02:40PM |
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you would
Registered Member #149
Joined: Sun Feb 12 2006, 01:08AMPosts: 2039 |
Facebook = stalker vibes (don't send stalker vibes) but hey, I'm just Dr.4ngry, what do I know... |
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| gLiTch |
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Anal Assassin
Registered Member #455
Joined: Mon Oct 09 2006, 04:58AMPosts: 3848 |
everything else that was said in this thread before me... plz disregard it. If there was ever a strong point in my smoothness with women... it is romanticism. First things first... You must know that being drunk brings out the inner-self in most people. It shows who they really are. Example.. Me, when im drunk... i joke about everything and i love everyone. As you can tell when im not drunk... im a nice guy. So she does think your great... Keep that in mind. And she WILL remember you. She obviously didnt black out, so she will remember you. Second most important thing is this... DO NOT... and i repeat DO NOT get her number via facebook/myspace. That is for people who are just looking to get laid. If you say she is "girlfriend" "special beautiful" material, then she is worth more then facebook bullshit. Also, DO NOT ask her friends for her number. BIG MISTAKE. If she is still in high school age range... then the friends WILL gossip and throw their two cents in. Annoying lil fuckers. Also, GIRLS HATE IT... HATE IT HATE IT when other people give out their numbers. Whether they know the person or not... they hate it. To find her, get sneaky. Try and "coincidentally" end up on her route home from school. Or work... or too work. Get creative. If you see her again like that, then she will notice and appreciate it even more. When you see her, dont go right out and ask her to dinner or to the movies. First start off small. Just go hang out. Think of something small to do. If you feel confident enough that shes REALLY into you, then go ahead and ask her to the movies. After that... remember to make the kiss special. If you find yourself really close to her face... and shes looking at you, look at her lips for 1 SECOND... then look back at her eyes. She will notice, and take the sign. Then BAM! Move in slow and enjoy! Product of gLiTch Inc. Copyright laws are applied. Thankyou for reading! Edited Tue Apr 22 2008, 02:54PM |
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| yourdroid |
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Registered Member #36
Joined: Thu Dec 01 2005, 06:12PMPosts: 214 |
I usually ignore these threads, but since it's Bandito i will throw this out there. Noskill is right, best shot was getting it then and there. It is salvageable but there are two things you can't do. Don't mention what happened just refer to the party, no details. Secondly don't do anything pathetic or too out of the way to get her number. It looks creepy if you troll the internet to find her. You can wait to find her at another party and use noskill's approach. If you want to try something else bring it up casually with your friend who threw the party or whoever would know her. But again don't sound needy and don't bring it up constantly or with lots of people. |
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| Wolf |
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Registered Member #95
Joined: Mon Dec 26 2005, 04:56AMPosts: 331 |
gLiTchâ„¢ wrote ... Try and "coincidentally" end up on her route home from school. Or work... or too work. Get creative. Accidental buttsecks. Misplace your pants beforehand. In all honesty you fucked your big chance, now all you have is the small off-chance she finds you or you bump into her. Or you can go with the stalker version of everyone's opinion here. Anyway you hash it you're probably going to come off creepy anyway, hope she likes you! |
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PM Posts: 2628 |
For the record, there is no fucking way in hell glitch's advice will work. Although his IOI's (indicators of interest) on the first kiss are spot on. |
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