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Registered Member #877
Joined: Tue Oct 02 2007, 07:21PMPosts: 663 |
wow buddha. That was dangerous. | ||
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Registered Member #594
Joined: Thu Mar 15 2007, 09:37PMPosts: 471 |
It would of been a good story, IF you were the one who texted "Oh and btw- i'm pregnant with your kid. so fuck you." | ||
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| NoSkill |
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PMPosts: 2628 |
Let me rephrase. I'm not suggesting you terminate the relationship that you feel you need. What I'm suggesting is that you adopt a certain... role. That you become or at least portray the actions beliefs and feelings of an alpha male. Most, (not all) but MOST women want a very strong man in their lives. Strong physically, strong mentally, etc. And by becoming that man, you do several things, first you appease her natural desire. 2nd you become the type of person you need to be to handle incredibly difficult situations. With confidence, boldness and an air of a guy who "get's shit done". If you can get to this point you will not only ensure that your present girlfriend admires and respects you (and isn't that really the issue?). But you'll be the type of person that most people, men and women alike, admire and respect. So while I feel for you, as an empathizer, I also condemn your "woe is me" response., as a man. |
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| nostie |
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Registered Member #185
Joined: Thu Mar 30 2006, 10:42PMPosts: 3167 |
NoSkill wrote ... I'm not sure where you saw a "woe is me" type of response. I told a story... that's pretty much it.
So while I feel for you, as an empathizer, I also condemn your "woe is me" response., as a man. |
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PM Posts: 2628 |
I guess it was the lack of resolution in your story that made me think of you as portraying yourself as some sort of victim.. | ||
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PM Posts: 2628 |
Where's glitch at in this thread? I'm sure he can chime in with some relevant experience. | ||
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| gLiTch |
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Anal Assassin
Registered Member #455
Joined: Mon Oct 09 2006, 04:58AMPosts: 3848 |
NoSkill wrote ... Where's glitch at in this thread? I'm sure he can chime in with some relevant experience. Im sorry noskill but my therapist told me to stay away from conversations like this. I have enough of my own girl problems. Listen Nostie... all i can tell you from experience is this: Dont be a doormat, A woman should treat you like you treat them. Women have issues. Many many issues. Many of them are ungrateful sons of bitches who are out for them and them only. You can comfort them during the times they need but when its your turn they would rather put their priorities first and you second or third. Listen. People change. There is no way around it. Dont get serious until u got a career going. It will be the hardest thing you ever faced. Personal experiences tell me this. Now im telling you. My girlfriend of 6+ years is not only my girlfriend, not just the girl i love to death more then anyone else, but she is also my best friend. Losing her is like losing half of myself. Just dont follow my shoes. It will only break you down into nothing. And its so difficult to get back up from it. BTW, Buddha... i know exactly how u feel. I get the same way and i myself had that exact problem where i tensed up... facial muscles and all. It was scary. I deal with panic and anxiety every day. It sucks. It really does. glitch out. |
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| Madvillain |
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Registered Member #445
Joined: Sun Oct 01 2006, 11:42PMPosts: 2233 |
Hey how about this, find another girl while your with this one. you know, keep your options open. and then once you find someone else where there are mutual feelings, that will automatically give you leverage in this relationship. |
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Anal Assassin
Registered Member #455
Joined: Mon Oct 09 2006, 04:58AM Posts: 3848 |
Oh and I have another huge problem. I also cannot find another girl attractive. For christ sake I can't even watch porn anymore. I became unhappy with my life and in turn my girlfriend whom I love became the only thing I did like. Then she got cancer and sshit got real. I think I've become too attached. I find mmyself unable to function unless I hear from hher throughout the day. Its a huge issue. Its only getting worse and its feeding off itself. |
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| Madvillain |
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Registered Member #445
Joined: Sun Oct 01 2006, 11:42PM Posts: 2233 |
gLiTch wrote ... Oh and I have another huge problem. I also cannot find another girl attractive. For christ sake I can't even watch porn anymore. I became unhappy with my life and in turn my girlfriend whom I love became the only thing I did like. Then she got cancer and sshit got real. I think I've become too attached. I find mmyself unable to function unless I hear from hher throughout the day. Its a huge issue. Its only getting worse and its feeding off itself. crazy, sounds like a disease I would not like to have lol my serious condolences though about the news of cancer. I know you told us before but I really do hope all works out for you two Edited Wed Mar 16 2011, 12:33AM |
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