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| creativenate88 |
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Registered Member #545
Joined: Sun Jan 21 2007, 08:11PMPosts: 263 |
ok so as a teenager what is an appropriate age difference for a guy and a girl? simple question, and im talking about a relationship, not like dirty doggy style in the back yard......be serious please, i know its hard..but do it for me. | ||
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| TwItcH |
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Registered Member #251
Joined: Wed May 10 2006, 10:47AMPosts: 227 |
ok heres my schools law  10-12 13-15 16-18 If you date anyone under 3 years of you...... well your a cradle robber, and if you date anyone 3 years older than you ... all hail to ya, just dont let 5-0 find out or your gf/bf could get some jail time for sex with a minor |
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| A Drunk |
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Registered Member #437
Joined: Sat Sep 23 2006, 02:18AMPosts: 1224 |
I say if you are like in middle school, you date kids in middle school. When you get in high school, you do the same. Once you are 18, i only like 10 years difference, but i still think that is sick at 18. A girl at my school is 18 is dating a 29 year old. That is fucken sick. | ||
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| Chromide |
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Registered Member #595
Joined: Fri Mar 16 2007, 02:57AMPosts: 37 |
TwItcH wrote ... ok heres my schools law 10-12 13-15 16-18 If you date anyone under 3 years of you...... well your a cradle robber, and if you date anyone 3 years older than you ... all hail to ya, just dont let 5-0 find out or your gf/bf could get some jail time for sex with a minor that sounds like the way it is here too |
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| Noname|Boom |
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That one guy...
Registered Member #250
Joined: Tue May 09 2006, 11:59PMPosts: 2603 |
5 year difference for me. | ||
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| Wildcard23 |
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Registered Member #514
Joined: Wed Dec 20 2006, 06:33AMPosts: 1067 |
Legal answer is as a follows. Normal accepted age difference is 2-3 years. Therefore, a 16 year old dating a 13 year old for whatever reason is considered ok in most states. A 13 year old dating a 17 year would be some tricky ground but not technically illegal. Just weird. If you are 18+ and seeing a 13-15 year old, it is considered carnal knowledge. Illegal which means jail time. An 18 or 19 year old dating a 16 year old is kind of tricky also. In today's society it happens quite a bit since high school girls always seem to want to date older. Personally. I met one of my girlfriends when she was 16 and I was 18. She turned 17 two days before I turned 19. You have to be careful with issues like this but like I said there is usually an accepted age difference of 2-3 years. Once you are 18, you are considered an adult and can date/hook-up/sleep with anyone older than you. Although, I find it a little disturbing if a guy in his 40's is dating an 18-year old. I mean I know all guys want a younger woman but 18 year olds still have a ton of growing up to do and what the hell do you talk about with each other. Two, totally different wavelengths. Obviously, the main thing that you should be concerned with is legal repurcusions. At the forefront, you should be thinking about statutory rape. I suggest you read this -[link]- on wikipedia about it. Remember, each state has different laws governing laws but that should help you. Overall, use common sense. If you are 19 and thinking about dating anyone less than 16 years old then you are pushing the envelope way to far. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but to most it will seem wrong. If you guys have any legal questions regarding stuff such as this, I suggest you either send me a PM or grab me on xfire to ask me about it. I will be able to either give you an answer on the spot or do some research for you and get the answer to your question. Benefit of having been a cop for a few years. 
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| Knightrider |
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Meteor 2016
Registered Member #316
Joined: Mon Jun 26 2006, 09:14PMPosts: 3503 |
I'm 17, almost 18, and think that dating someone even 3 years younger then me is kind of...eh. It might be okay later on in life, after you're past 21. I think it's kind of nasty considering that you're almost an adult at age 17 and a 14 year old is just still developing, nonetheless still maturing. I've never dated anyone that was even 2 years younger then me, the closest I've got was a year and a half. As for like 18 year olds dating people 10 years+ over that's kind of nasty especially when they date old men or something. Why would you want like a 40 year old dick in you? You could have my nice shiny still young cock! It's shined up and ready to go. Some people's dating preferences are just weird, but for the most part it's because of money. Once you are in your 30s even 5 to 7 years difference doesn't matter much anymore, considering that the both of you are pretty much mature. Although the body is considered to be at it's strongest point when you're 28, that doesn't mean necessarily matureness. I don't think it's bad after that. But if you're a teenager and you're a 17 or 18 year old dating like a 14 or 13 year old, that's kind of wrong and if you date prepubescents you're going to be a rapist
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| Ninca |
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Registered Member #561
Joined: Sun Feb 04 2007, 07:45AMPosts: 1109 |
First, I'll go with my opinion. I think you said you were a junior/senior in HS? (Pretty sure its Senior). Just date anyone that's a sophmore/junior/senior, but don't go for someone that's a younger sibling's age . I have one of my good friends, who is a senior just like me, who is 18, and dated a 14 year old freshman. Granted she was hot as all hell, but its still grimmy as fuck. All of my friends make fun of him for going after younger girls. One time, in particular, at the mall we were going to see a movie, and these 8th graders walk by, and say "Hey dan whats up!" We all started laughing, while he went to talk to them, again its grimmy as fuck! If you have a thing for a younger girl, ask your friends in school about the circumstances surrounding it, and if she's 3-4 years younger, you might not get with a older girl in your school for a while, but will have options open for you surrounding the younger girls. |
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| Vincent Vega |
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Registered Member #578
Joined: Fri Feb 23 2007, 07:00AMPosts: 176 |
"Why would you want like a 40 year old dick in you? You could have my nice shiny still young cock! It's shined up and ready to go." Rofl. I'm 18, senior in my high school. Dating and getting with 10 graders is considered fine and getting with 9th graders isn't bad as much as it is faux pais. Only the true sketchy horndog seniors get with freshmen. So numberwise, 2-3 years is fine, just make sure she ain't completely on your dick, because those girls are annoying. You needa girl that can fight ya  And I know there is a double-standard, like Drunk's example is pretty weird. The 29 year old must be a sketch. But if that was an 18 year old guy with a 29 year old chick, score. I believe the standard is that men generally have the worse intentions in relationships, whereas chicks are about holding hands, eating jellybeans, and going to Justin Timberlake concerts. Don't panic nate, just follow the 2-3 year rule. The "-3" is pretty much open to discretion and public opinion, like if the girl developed early (15yr old looking like a 20 yr old = fine) or isn't too developed (15yr old looking a 12 yr old = weird.) because personality means shit regarding women. They change too much and subject are to hormones. |
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| creativenate88 |
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Registered Member #545
Joined: Sun Jan 21 2007, 08:11PM Posts: 263 |
w00t w00t guys, thanks....i was just curious. I have a friend thats 17 and a his gf is fuckn 13...i wouldnt do that shit. I follor the 2-3 yr law as well preferably the 2 haha. AND ive been talking to this freshman, shes pretty cool. and ninca im a junior, and might be for a while... | ||
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