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Registered Member #716
Joined: Tue May 22 2007, 02:14AMPosts: 202 |
 That's my ex-girlfriend. The only girl I can ever say I truely loved and what did I do? Totally and completely fucked up my relationship with her. We've been broken up for just over a year now, and I still have feelings for her lol. But is it weird that I really don't want to see myself in a relationship with her? Fact of the matter is, I don't think I'm good enough, nor will I ever be good enough to redeem myself in her eyes. She's in a league of her own and is now dating one of my old friends. I wish the best for her, because in the end all I wanted was for her to be happy, but I resent him. Alas, me rambling on to a bunch of people I don't know, but it's just something I needed to do. |
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you would
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Joined: Sun Feb 12 2006, 01:08AMPosts: 2039 |
Sounds like a job for Dr.4ngry | ||
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PMPosts: 2628 |
Fuck your feel sorry for yourself attitude. We're human, we fuck up. You fuck up, she fucks up, everyone fucks up. Don't let your fuck ups ruin your experience man. Learn and grow. I'll tell you what won't get her back (if that's what you want to do) feeling sorry for yourself. Girls want confidence, alpha males, who know where they are in life and where they're going. They want guys who EXUDE confidence out of every pore, who don't even need them (the girl), but talk to them anyway. Meh why the fuck am I giving advice lol... you're on your own. Here here, I suggest calling her non-stop and professing your love for her in a loud clear and public way. Perhaps from the top of a building or in a crowded subway. Or you can bake her a cake that says I Wub U and then buy her a puppy. |
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Registered Member #716
Joined: Tue May 22 2007, 02:14AM Posts: 202 |
Thing is I want her to be happy, and she is happy with her current boyfriend. I couldn't do anything to make her unhappy, which is why I don't want to be in a relationship with her. It's just that after a year and a half I still love her, and yet I don't want to date her anymore, so i'm in a really fucked up spot and have absolutely no idea what to do. |
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terrible one
Registered Member #33
Joined: Tue Nov 29 2005, 11:50PMPosts: 1292 |
No, NO, NOOO. I AM THE TRUE EMO. I will ban you all.... | ||
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Anal Assassin
Registered Member #455
Joined: Mon Oct 09 2006, 04:58AMPosts: 3848 |
NoSkill wrote ... Fuck your feel sorry for yourself attitude. We're human, we fuck up. You fuck up, she fucks up, everyone fucks up. Don't let your fuck ups ruin your experience man. Learn and grow. I'll tell you what won't get her back (if that's what you want to do) feeling sorry for yourself. Girls want confidence, alpha males, who know where they are in life and where they're going. They want guys who EXUDE confidence out of every pore, who don't even need them (the girl), but talk to them anyway. Meh why the fuck am I giving advice lol... you're on your own. Here here, I suggest calling her non-stop and professing your love for her in a loud clear and public way. Perhaps from the top of a building or in a crowded subway. Or you can bake her a cake that says I Wub U and then buy her a puppy. dude... we need to party together. I think we would crash some crazee parties..lulz.. And he is right. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF. Become the alpha male. Show her that your the better man. Fuck that other pussy kid. Go beat his ass. WE ARE PRIMATES AND WE FUCK TO SURVIVE! Get over it and go talk to her. My advice to you is to take the sneaky route. Use the back door. Talk to her as friends and get a lil bit closer to her. And then BAM your in. If she liked you once, then she will always have an unconscious thing for you. Awaken it. Unless of course you did something crazy that fucked up your relationship, which in turn causes you to not have even a small chance of getting back with her. Dont give me that... i want her to be happy bullshit. YOU come first, and your happiness is what matters. Im sure when your happy with her again, she will be too. If you have anymore questions, ask me or NoSkill. I will get you in close with her. NoSkill will get you into bed with her. So we like a team or something. Edited Thu Mar 27 2008, 09:38PM |
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Registered Member #1020
Joined: Fri Feb 29 2008, 09:25PMPosts: 96 |
glitch .... i couldnt have said it any better myslef ... think the exact same way as i do ... listen to glitch... fuckin beat the shat out of that kid and play mind games with the girl to she thinks ur the best choice for her 
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Sir
Registered Member #457
Joined: Tue Oct 10 2006, 01:13PM Posts: 2628 |
Don't beat the shit out of the other kid lol... that's definitely not going to work. Then you're just going to look like an asshole. Although if it's going to make YOU feel better, fucking go for it. Which is a good thing looking like an asshole honestly attracts chicks. The trick is how to LOOK like and asshole and BE an asshole but not a COMPLETE asshole. Girls love bad boys because they feel they can change them. They love the challenge regardless of how stupid of a concept it is to even think you can change someone (girls aren't known for great logic or reasoning skills). You know who comes first in this world man? YOU DO! FUCKING YOU DO! YOUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!! RIGHT THERE!!!! THAT GUY!!!! Look in the fucking mirror man and ask yourself, right in the eye, "Who comes first?" and if your answer is anything but a screaming "I DO!" then somethings fucked in ur head and I suggest copious amounts of drugs, alcohol and self-help books. P.S. I'm not just saying this so you blow your chances with her that way I can fuck her. Honestly, that never even crossed my mind. Edited Thu Mar 27 2008, 10:10PM |
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Registered Member #1020
Joined: Fri Feb 29 2008, 09:25PM Posts: 96 |
skill is so right the more u act like ur not intrested the more they are trust me its one of the oldest tricks | ||
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I want to fuck your hand.
Registered Member #571
Joined: Thu Feb 15 2007, 09:59PMPosts: 2809 |
I wasn't gonna say anything because its kindof dumb and it's not something I would share publicly, but recently me and my girlfriend have been having issues. While I was in puerto rico I kissed another girl, (I was fucking PLASTERED out of my mind.. but that's still not an excuse..) I felt absolutely horrible so I had to tell her myself, and just suffer through what was going to happen. Unfortunately.. I took the situation too light.. and she probably doesnt want to take me back.. Now.. this is the one girl that I thought was perfect for me. She didnt mind that I was a bad boy, but she really brought the best out in me... and I just wanted to give her whatever she wanted because it just felt like she deserved the world. I know... sounds like im a little nincy faggot, But I really loved this girl. What I thought was a little problem, was apparently my biggest mistake. I just told her under a week ago, so obviously things are rough.. but she keeps talking about how we might break up, but in the mean time we are still dating... She keeps talking about this kid that likes her and how she wants to get even but she doesnt want to go that low.. idk :/ I've been trying to be so good, and I always try and be the best I can for her, but I really fucked it up. It's been a year and a half for you? I guess I would be in the same situation... I am down right in love with this girl, materialistic things didnt matter, it wasnt about the sex, I just really really loved her. We used to joke and say we cant get through a simple activity like a movie or a video game together without "fooling around," But all I want right now is some quality time with her and I fucked it all up... I dont know what you did, but I thought a kiss that I dont even remember DOING wasnt that bad. So if you did something worse then that, idk what to tell ya man. Girls are really sensitive.. and dont deserve to be treated like shit, and I made it my goal to give her the world, and I failed. Yeah, I can wait for her to miss me, and want me back.. but I just want her to know NOW how sorry I am, and I would take it all back if I could.. idk.. nothing I can do but wait now... If its a Year and a half, it will be soooo fucking hard. But I definitely think I would do it for this girl... I'm sorry guys. I havent told anybody and I just had to rant and get some of it out... I've been a mess lately. I'm not looking for sympathy or pity, just wanted to get something off my chest, like you Mibu. It seems like we both had great girls and we fucked it up :/ P.S. Glitch and Noskill, its not even about feeling sorry for ourselves. We dont have pimp magic, and even if we somewhat do, and thats what got us into trouble, it's not really our lifestyle. It works good for you guys, but I just like finding one to hold onto  I know I sure as hell wont look again for a longggg time though. I'm gonna do what I can to keep this one... I do feel I'm confident, and I do know what I want, I want her. But sometimes... it's not enough. and she makes it seem like I'm lacking something and I wont get a second chance... who knows... ugh.Sorry, im done. sorry Mibu, cheer up brother. I wont tell you there are other girls out there, because I myself just want this one. but, feel better about it man. |
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